Carisma translates to "charisma," a quality that makes someone appealing and captivating. It's a word that evokes personality and charm.
In "Besos Tristes," the singer laments, "Yo sé que es él el que te ha robado el carisma" (I know it's him who has stolen your charisma). This line suggests that the person's new relationship has diminished their vibrant personality, making them less engaging and lively than they once were. It's an interesting way to express a change in someone's spirit.
"Besos Tristes" is Cali Y El Dandee calling out an ex who came crawling back too late. The singer isn't buying the reunion -- "Te desconozco, no eres la misma" ("I don't know you, you're not the same") -- and he's already decided who's to blame: someone else stole her spark, he says, and left her cold. The hook turns her return into a taunt: "¿Cuántos besos diste? ¿Cuántos besos tristes?" ("How many kisses did you give? How many sad kisses?") -- he let her go once ("Te dejé volar", "I let you fly"), and now that she's flown back, he wants a tally of every kiss those "sad" ones cost her elsewhere. By the bridge he's picking at the new guy who takes her to the movies, admitting he still misses hearing her say "Te amo, ma" ("I love you, babe") -- but the song never lets her back in. It just keeps counting.