Dignità translates to "dignity". It's a profound and powerful word that carries significant emotional weight, especially in the context of enduring hardship.
In the song, Gino Paoli repeatedly emphasizes the importance of maintaining one's dignità even when facing immense pain, loss, and despair. He sings, "Salvare la tua dignità" (Save your dignity), highlighting it as a core value to uphold when everything else seems to fall apart. This makes it a compelling and memorable word that resonates deeply with the song's message of resilience.
The song is a list of instructions for the end of a love affair, delivered by a man who cannot follow a single one of them. Almost every line opens the same way — "Devi sapere ridere ancora" ("You must know how to laugh again"), "Devi sapere andare via" ("You must know how to go away") — as though walking away were a skill someone could be taught. The advice is practical and cold. Keep your face straight: "Salvare la tua dignità" ("To save your dignity"). Stop wanting more than you were served: "Devi sapere lasciar la tavola / Se ti han già dato la tua parte" ("You must know how to leave the table / If they have already given you your share"). Do your crying out of sight: "Devi sapere pianger da solo" ("You must know how to cry alone").
Then the lesson breaks off. Halfway through, the voice drops the rules and says "Ma io, io non so" ("But I, I don't know"), and the song ends on the same admission — "Devi sapere, ma io non so" ("You must know, but I don't know"). Gino Paoli recorded it in 1962, an Italian version of Charles Aznavour's "Il faut savoir", and he sings the instructions the way you recite something you have been told and cannot do.