Tantito is a charming and informal diminutive of tanto (so much/so many), meaning "a little bit" or "just a little." It's a common colloquialism in Mexico and other Spanish-speaking regions, adding a touch of familiarity and playfulness to the language.
In the song, the phrase "que tanto es tantito" is a rhetorical question that playfully suggests, "how much is just a little bit?" or "what's the big deal about a little bit?" It's used to downplay the significance of a small step towards a larger goal, implying that once you start with a little, it's easy to go further. This makes it an enticing word because it hints at a deeper, more nuanced cultural expression.
Tito Torbellino Jr.'s "Que Tanto Es Tantito" is a fun, flirty song about a guy who is absolutely determined to win over someone, even if they're playing hard to get! He admits he messed up before, saying "Yo sé que fallé y no digo nada" [I know I failed and I don't say anything] and "Mal interpreté todas tus miradas" [I misinterpreted all your looks]. But now, he's back with a confident, almost cheeky attitude.
He's not taking no for an answer, even when she says "no" or "jamás" [never]. He just laughs and thinks about tomorrow, dreaming of waking up in her bed. He's so sure of himself, he even says, "Me he de comer esa tuna aunque me espine el hocico" [I have to eat that prickly pear even if it pricks my snout], which is a colorful way of saying he'll do whatever it takes, no matter the difficulty. He's convinced she'll eventually give in, telling her to "Vete haciendo la idea, que vas a acabar conmigo" [Get used to the idea, that you're going to end up with me]. It's a playful, persistent declaration of his intentions!