“Ich Steine, Du Steine” is Peter Fox’s poetic way of saying “You and I are nothing but rocks.” From the very first line, stones tumble, crash, and even get served for dinner. These rocks are the grudges, misunderstandings, and emotional weight that pile up between two people who still cling to one another. The singer and his partner try to climb, catch, and even swallow those stones, yet every attempt drags them deeper into the sand. It is a rocky love story in the truest sense: both feel stuck, unable to move forward together, but also terrified of splitting apart.
At its core, the song asks a simple, painful question: can you love someone you can’t live with? The pair share no common “alphabet,” meaning communication breaks down and they keep hurting each other. One moment the heart is full and the head is empty, the next it is flipped. Fox admits that their dream of “perfect happiness” was only a fever dream, yet the bond remains real and raw. The chorus sums it up perfectly: Ich kann nicht mit und nicht ohne Dich — I can’t be with you, but I can’t be without you either. Like carrying stones in your stomach, this relationship is heavy, uncomfortable, and hard to let go, but the song’s driving beat turns that struggle into a powerful anthem of honesty. Who knew a pile of rocks could groove so hard? 🎶