Ablandes comes from the verb ablandar, meaning "to soften" or "to make tender". It's a less common word in everyday conversation, making it stand out in a song.
In this song, the singer is pleading with their former love, asking, "No sé si es mucho pedir que te ablandes" (I don't know if it's too much to ask that you soften). They're not just asking for forgiveness, but for their ex's heart to soften towards them, hoping for a second chance. This emotional plea makes the word particularly poignant.
Matisse's "No Sé Si Es Mucho Pedir" is a heartfelt plea from someone desperate to win back a lost love. The singer admits to making a mistake that led to the breakup, saying, "Todavía quedan restos de tu vida, Recodándome que te perdí por un error" [There are still remnants of your life, reminding me that I lost you because of a mistake].
They're not ready to give up, asking their former partner not to surrender to the idea that it's over: "Todavía no te me des por vencida, Que yo no acepto que esto ya se terminó" [Don't give up on me yet, because I don't accept that this is over]. The song's title, "No sé si es mucho pedir" [I don't know if it's too much to ask], sets up the core of the song: a series of earnest requests. The singer asks for a second chance, hoping their ex will soften their heart, remembering the pain they caused by leaving: "Tú me presentaste el dolor, Cuando te decidiste marcharte" [You introduced me to pain, when you decided to leave]. It's a really intense song, with the singer even saying that if their love never returns, it would send them "directito al infierno" [straight to hell]. But there's also a hint of resignation, wondering if it's too late and if they should just say goodbye.